Chapter 9: Quiz


1. The Strange Situation, developed by Mary Ainsworth, measures attachment by observing:

  • A) Adults describing their childhood memories
  • B) An infant's behavior during separation from and reunion with their caregiver
  • C) How well couples communicate during a disagreement
  • D) Brain activity during social interaction

Answer: B. The Strange Situation observes infant behavior (distress at separation, behavior at reunion) to classify attachment patterns. It uses behavioral observation, not self-report.


2. Approximately what percentage of infants are classified as securely attached?

  • A) 25%
  • B) 40%
  • C) 60%
  • D) 85%

Answer: C. Approximately 60% of infants are classified as securely attached, with the remainder distributed among anxious-ambivalent (~15%), avoidant (~25%), and disorganized (variable).


3. The key difference between how research measures infant attachment and how social media measures adult attachment is:

  • A) Research uses brain scans; social media uses quizzes
  • B) Research uses behavioral observation; social media uses self-report quizzes that are generally not validated instruments
  • C) There is no difference — both use the same methods
  • D) Research measures are less reliable than social media quizzes

Answer: B. Ainsworth's Strange Situation uses direct behavioral observation. Popular online quizzes use self-report, which is subject to social desirability bias, limited self-insight, and the Barnum effect.


4. Research on adult attachment stability shows that:

  • A) Attachment style never changes after infancy
  • B) Approximately 25–30% of adults change their attachment classification over time
  • C) Attachment style changes completely every few years
  • D) Only therapy can change attachment style

Answer: B. Attachment patterns show moderate stability but are not fixed. Positive relationships, therapy, and personal development can shift attachment patterns. About 25–30% of adults change classification over months to years.


5. The pop culture claim that "anxious + avoidant = disaster" is:

  • A) Fully supported by all relationship research
  • B) Oversimplified — these pairings are common, and outcomes depend on both partners' skills and awareness, not just their attachment types
  • C) Debunked — these pairings are actually the most successful
  • D) Only true for married couples

Answer: B. Anxious-avoidant pairings are common (possibly more common than chance). The outcome depends on communication skills, self-awareness, willingness to grow, and many other factors — not just the attachment combination.


6. Twin studies suggest the heritability of attachment is approximately:

  • A) 0% (entirely environmental)
  • B) 25–40%
  • C) 80–90%
  • D) 100%

Answer: B. Attachment has a modest heritable component (estimated 25–40%), meaning it is not purely a product of parenting — genetic factors also play a role.


7. Bowlby's concept of "internal working models" refers to:

  • A) Computer simulations of relationship behavior
  • B) Mental representations of what to expect from relationships, formed through caregiver interactions
  • C) Personality types that determine relationship outcomes
  • D) Therapeutic techniques for repairing insecure attachment

Answer: B. Internal working models are mental schemas about relationships — expectations about whether others are reliable and whether the self is worthy of care — developed through early caregiving experiences.


8. The chapter's main argument about attachment theory is:

  • A) Attachment theory is completely debunked
  • B) The infant research is solid, but the popular version oversimplifies adult attachment into fixed types, overstates childhood determinism, and ignores other relationship factors
  • C) Social media attachment content is more accurate than the research
  • D) Attachment has no relevance to adult relationships

Answer: B. The chapter validates the original infant attachment research while identifying four specific ways the popular version oversimplifies: fixed types (vs. dimensions), childhood determinism (vs. changeability), quiz-based measurement (vs. validated assessment), and single-cause explanation (vs. multiple factors).


9. An "anxious parent" reading about attachment theory should know that:

  • A) Any imperfect parenting creates insecure attachment
  • B) Secure attachment develops from "good enough" caregiving — consistent overall responsiveness, not perfection
  • C) Working parents always create insecurely attached children
  • D) Attachment is entirely determined by the first six months of life

Answer: B. Secure attachment requires "good enough" (Winnicott) caregiving — a general pattern of responsiveness. Brief separations, daycare, and working parents do not reliably predict insecure attachment.


10. The evidence-based replacement for "I'm anxious-attached and that's why my relationships fail" is:

  • A) "I have no attachment pattern at all"
  • B) "I tend toward higher attachment anxiety in some relationships, which makes me more sensitive to perceived rejection — a tendency shaped by multiple factors and changeable with awareness and skills"
  • C) "My relationships fail because of my partner, not me"
  • D) "Attachment theory is meaningless"

Answer: B. The accurate version describes a tendency (not a type), acknowledges context-dependence, identifies the mechanism (sensitivity to rejection), and notes changeability — all of which the research supports.