Appendix B: Quick-Reference Cards

Every number this book uses, in one place.

📜 A warning that applies to all of it. Almost everything here is a Tier 2 planning figure — a starting point for a conversation with a supplier, not a specification. Prices, ratios, and norms vary by country, city, season, and year. The arithmetic transfers completely; the numbers transfer not at all.

And Chapter 39's convention applies to every figure below: write the unit and the assumption next to it. 89 is not a number. 89 — seated dinner @ 12 sq ft is.


B.1 Guest Count → Everything

Guests Rounds of 10 Chairs Bar staff Loos (4–6 hr, alcohol)
50 5 55 1 1
80 8 88 1–2 2
100 10 110 2 2
150 15 165 2–3 2
200 20 220 3 3
300 30 330 4 4
400 40 440 5–6 6

Chairs at ~110% of guest count — ceremony seating, spares, and a cocktail-hour allowance. Chapter 29's finding: 100 dining seats is not 100 seats.


B.2 Space

Configuration sq ft per person
Theatre 6–8
Ceremony, chairs in rows ~6
Rounds, seated dinner 12–15
Classroom 15–18
U-shape 30+
Standing reception 6–8
Dance floor 2–3 per dancing guest (~40% of guests at once)

Circulation: 36 inches between table edges (Ch.11). A 26-inch gap is invisible on a drawing and is a wall to a wheelchair user.

Doorway: 32 inches clear minimum, 36 comfortable. Turning circle 60 inches. Any step is a barrier. (Ch.29)

Emergency lane: 4 m, unobstructed, nobody's overflow parking. (Ch.34)


B.3 The Money Formulas

All of them, in one place.

Banquet multiplier (1 + service) × (1 + tax). At 24% and 9%: 1.3516
Cost of an hour (take-home + tax + fixed costs) ÷ (hours worked × billable ratio)
Billable ratio 35–50% year one · 55–65% established. Anybody claiming 90% is not counting something
Minimum viable fee required revenue ÷ sellable Saturdays
Loss tolerance on a price rise 1 − 1 ÷ (1 + rise)
True hourly cost of an event (fee − event costs − share of fixed costs) ÷ all hours including pre-engagement
Per-client unbillable overhead 12–18 hours, regardless of fee
Cost per acquisition (cash + hours × your rate) ÷ bookings
Attrition damages (threshold − pickup) × basis
Cost per dollar raised total cost ÷ gross raised
Power Σ loads × 1.25 diversity factor
Registration desks (arrivals × seconds each) ÷ 3,600. 45 sec staffed, ~12 self-serve

Loss tolerance, tabulated

Price rise Clients you can lose and hold revenue
+10% 9.1%
+20% 16.7%
+30% 23.1%
+40% 28.6%
+50% 33.3%
+100% 50.0%

B.4 Timing Rules of Thumb

Ceremony 20–35 min. The failure is always addition (Ch.20)
Cocktail hour 60–90 min. 90 needs somewhere to sit
Dinner, plated, 3 courses 75–105 min
Dinner, family style 60–90 min
Speeches 4 min each, and they will be 7
Everything complete 45 min before guests arrive (Ch.13)
Conference session, one mode 50–60 min ceiling (Ch.31)
400 people between rooms 12–15 min; 20 with one corridor
Conference break 20 min minimum, 30 with a queue. A 15-minute break starts the next session late
Photography, family combinations 3–4 min each (Ch.23)
Golden hour the 60 min before sunset

B.5 Production and Build

53-ft trailer, at a dock 4 crew, 45–90 min
53-ft trailer, tail-lift, no dock 4 crew, 2–4 hours
Strike 40–60% of build time. Everybody plans 25%
Minimum crew call ~4 hours
Turnaround between calls 8–10 hours
Meal rule within ~5 hrs of call; penalty per half-hour per person
400 chairs set 2 crew, 60–75 min
40 rounds set and dressed 4 crew, 2–3 hours
Breakout room, standard AV 2 crew, 45 min per room
AV, 400-person 3-day event $93,000–175,000
Overnight reset, multi-day 90–180 min, fresh crew

B.6 Consumption

Bar, per person, over a 4–5 hour event (Ch.15 — and Chapter 15 states plainly that this model has no published evidence base)

First hour Each hour after
Drinks per drinking guest 2 1
Not drinking 15–25% of any room
Ice 1.5 lb per guest, more in heat
Wine 5 glasses per 750 ml bottle

Catering: over-preparation of 10–20% is standard and is both a cost and a waste stream (Ch.14, 35).

Water at an outdoor ceremony: a station, from 45 min before, ~$34 for 100. (Ch.29)


B.7 Power

Approx. draw
Catering hot box 1,500–2,000 W each
Coffee urn 1,000–1,500 W
Commercial fridge 300–800 W
DJ rig 1,000–2,000 W
Festoon, 200 ft LED 100–250 W
Uplighter, LED 10–30 W each
Small PA 300–600 W
LED wall, conference scale 10,000–30,000 W

Method: enumerate · sum · × 1.25 · size the supply above it. AV on its own leg (Ch.34). Backup with automatic transfer, or it is eleven minutes of darkness.


B.8 Sustainability

kg CO₂e
Long-haul return flight, per person 1,800–3,500
Short-haul return flight, per person 300–500
Car, 200 km round trip, per vehicle 34–48
Rail, per passenger-km ~0.04
Beef main, per serving 5–7
Chicken main 1.5–2.5
Vegetarian main 0.5–1.5
Hotel room-night 10–30
Disposable plastic fork 0.01–0.02

One transatlantic guest ≈ 400 beef dinners ≈ 150,000 forks.

Sanitation: 1 per 100–120 (≤4 hrs, no alcohol) · 1 per 75 (4–6 hrs with alcohol) · 1 per 50–60 (over 6 hrs or multi-day, plus servicing) · ≥5% accessible.


B.9 Pricing and Business

Full planning 10–20% of budget, or a flat fee
Enquiry → booking conversion 20–35% year one
Warm venue referral → booking ~35%
Destination guest conversion ~52% of invited, vs ~87% domestic
Payment processing 2.5–3.5% of everything
Runway before leaving employment 3–6 months of personal + business burn, less contracted work
CPA: relationships ~$278
CPA: past-client referrals ~$91
CPA: Instagram, with hours costed ~$4,080

Gratuity ranges (US-shaped, and among the most regionally variable figures in this book — check the service charge first, and ask whether it reaches staff): bartenders $20–50 each or 10% of the bar** · delivery crews **$5–20 each · hair and makeup 15–25% · DJ/band $50–150 per person** · officiant **a donation, often $50–150 · photographer and planner: usually not, if they own the business.


B.10 The Fifteen Rules

Everything this book would put on one card.

  1. Surface it early. The cost of a problem rises with the month it is found in.
  2. Write the unit next to the number. 89 — seated dinner @ 12 sq ft.
  3. An unassigned task is an unhappened task — and one owner, not two.
  4. Delay is directional. Ask what is waiting before you react.
  5. A rain plan is five things, not a sentence.
  6. Late with no contact is treated as absent. Starting is reversible; waiting is not.
  7. Ask, do not provide — and never ask anybody to describe themselves.
  8. Anything announced is also printed.
  9. The absence of complaints is evidence of nothing.
  10. A debrief that produces only praise has failed. Go first.
  11. You are pricing your capacity, not the event.
  12. You market to the people who get asked, not to couples.
  13. A finding gets an owner and a due date, or it is not logged.
  14. A plan is tested by removing something — and the thing most worth removing is you.
  15. Decide what you will not do.